Over 75 percent of all women never achieve orgasm . Are the men surprised here?-albeit they would. Although, most women attain it with the help of sex toys, hand, tongue or masturbation but seriously, a lot of women never discuss about it because they don’t want to feel like the odd one, In which case they think every other female attain climax-unfortunately all your friends might have never attained them as well.
Most men can ejaculate and climax without difficulty but women have to build it over time. Porn movies, sex books and other media make us believe that all women enjoy sex with all the constant state of ecstasy surrounding sex. This makes some female have a feel of inferiority, knowing they can’t climax and probably diseased. The fact is, there is noting wrong with you.
A survey found out that 47 per cent first ever climaxed through masturbation, 32 percent through sexual intercourse. 20 percent through foreplay and percent while sleeping. I agreed with the survey because for a very long time, I can only reach orgasm through masturbation until I trained myself and now attain multiple orgasms. The true about it, is, you have to learn your own rhythmic and the position that would make you come easily.
How do you train yourself?
Masturbating helps you to learn exactly which pressures and rhythms you need in order to bring you to orgasm. Through masturbation, you will learn the exact spot that could make you reach that height and in fact the right sex position for you.
Some people don’t believe in this but I say, if you want to spice up your sex life, get some help using sex DVD. Watch them just before sex, it will stimulate your thoughts and make you wet before the action begins.Remember, tell your partner how and where to touch you, it shouldn’t be all about him, take control.
Some women, incidentally, find achieving orgasm much easier with the help of a vibrator.
If you are new to this and anxious about trying it, drink 2 glasses of red wine and you will be surprised at your action.
Honesty, orgasm is a good feeling which you just have to feel. It makes sex life more interesting. A relationship filled with love and appreciation increase self confidence in both partners and in turn blossom their sexual life. Women please stop the pretence, take control of your sex life, have a discussion with your partner and put all the tips into practice.